Hi everyone, firstly apologies I have been MIA for a while. It’s been a really busy year for me. Plus, I didn’t want to keep writing posts for the sake of it. The only way you’ll fully benefit from the posts on here, is by reading the information, digesting it, but more importantly, by implementing it into your daily life.
“Often the difference between a successful person and a failure is not one has better abilities or ideas, but the courage that one has to bet on one’s ideas” – Maxwell Maltz.
To this date, the most asked question I always get is about my SP and how I got him back. People want to know, exactly how I did it, how I got him back and changed him into the person I wanted him to be. I have written about this many times, but I think the main point, that is overlooked or missed by many is. Yes, I managed to get my SP back, and he is the most amazing version of himself now and I used the law of assumption and various techniques to achieve this but looking back the most important part of getting him back and actually keeping him in my life, as the version I wanted. Was not doing affirmations, or techniques, but actually working on myself and changing my self-concept.
People must understand that our life is created by the thoughts and assumptions we hold, about ourselves, others, and situations. We all attract various people and opportunities into our lives, but our ability to fully exploit them, is always dependent on our self-image and how we truly see ourselves. If we think we are worthy and deserve that opportunity, we will make the most of it, and excel at it, because we know we can do it and we’ll have the confidence to take full advantage of what is being offered to us but alternatively, if something comes into our lives and our self-image isn’t great and we don’t feel worthy of something. Then people always unconsciously self-sabotage the opportunity, with insecurities, self-doubt, and negativity.
We all know people, who aren’t the most attractive, intelligent, or knowledgeable people in the group, but they always seem to excel at everything they do. Life is easy for them; they attract all the right opportunities and people into their lives, to make the most of every circumstance that comes their way. People normally say that person is so lucky etc, but it doesn’t come down to luck, it all comes down to self-image, which relates to self-confidence. These people excel at everything they do, because of their self-belief in themselves, and a strong self-image. They know they deserve and are worthy of everything they have; hence why they attract more of it.
Relating this back to the SP, the reason you’re not with your SP has nothing to do with them or the circumstances of the relationship, but everything to do with you. Therefore, to get them back your focus shouldn’t be them, but it should actually be you. If you truly want to get your SP back and build the life of your dreams, you must stop concentrating on techniques and affirmations to get the SP back but instead use that energy to build yourself back up and make sure you become the best version of you, the type of person your SP would want to be with. To attract the best into your life, you must first become the best in your eyes, that is the only way you’ll ever feel worthy of the best. Don’t do it for them, do it for you, because you deserve to be happy.
Stop living in the past, and what happened years, months or even weeks ago, we can’t change the past, it has come and gone. Forgive yourself for the past, we all make mistakes. Don’t dwell on the past negativity. Move on and start living in the future, based on your desires and ensure your present is focused on becoming a better version of you. Plan your future, what do you want the future to look like, what do you want to accomplish. Remember, you attract what you focus on, so ensure you focus on what you want instead of what you don’t want.
Whilst you’re manifesting, instead of waiting for the manifestation to come into the 3D, because waiting will only attract more waiting. Use that time wisely, time is precious. Invest that time in yourself. Exercise, eat healthy, spend time with family & friends. Enjoy life, laugh, dance, sing, learn a new skill. When you invest in yourself, you’ll see the whole world around you will change. You can have anything you want, only if you have the courage to believe in your own abilities. You are the key to your happiness, don’t give that power or burden to someone else, it will only lead to disappointment. If you are happy within yourself, you will have the ability to make the people around you happy and you’ll no longer need validation from others to feel good.
Please never settle for something you don’t want or bad treatment from someone, just because you’re scared of losing them. When you truly work on yourself, you’ll know your own self-worth, and you’ll never allow someone to treat you in such as way. If that happens, you will be the one walking away with your head held high, not them. Once you put yourself on that pedestal, others will be chasing you and begging to be around you and, in your company, not the other way around.
Raise your standards, believe you are the most amazing person in the world. People ask me but isn’t that delusional, if it feels delusional, then be delusional, it’s better than being desperate. Your thoughts, and what you focus on manifests. So, make your thoughts and words work for you, instead of making them work against you.
If you are struggling to believe, if manifesting is true or not. Then the best way to make yourself believe is by putting the information into practice. Work on yourself, do it for a minimum of 21 days and prove it to yourself. What do you actually have to lose!
“If you can dream it, you can do it” – Walt Disney
Make 2022 your year, all about being the best version of you for you 😊