I’ve been getting so many questions, since sharing my SP success story. Unfortunately, I physically do not have the time to answer every individual dm anymore, I wish I did! So, I’ve pulled together a list of all the popular questions and answered them in this post. Hopefully, this will help and answer all the pending questions.
How did I ignore my current 3D reality?
Once you fully understand the law, you’ll realise the 3D world is irrelevant, it’s only a shadow based on your past thoughts. The only real reality is your very own imagination and thoughts. You must accept responsibility for the fact, you’re experiencing your current reality because you have created it with your continuous negative thoughts, assumptions and beliefs. There is no one else to blame, so you must leave the victim mindset behind. You have created this situation and only you have the power to change it. Let go of the past, and current reality and concentrate on what you do want, this will be your future 3D reality. You don’t have to completely ignore the 3D world, you carry on as normal in your day to day life, you go to work, go to gym, go meet friends, enjoy your life. Never put your life on hold until you receive your manifestation. Remember the work is done in the mind, in your mind you must live from the end, as the person who already has everything they want. What would your mindset be if you already had your SP, what kind of person would you be, how would you act and feel, embody that person now. To don’t have to act as if you already have your SP in the 3D world but you embody having the mindset of the person, who already has the desire. Would you feel more confident, happy and relaxed, feel that way right now. Know that it’s already done, and the 3D world just has to catch up.
How to stop repeating the old story?
Once again, you must accept accountability. You have created the old story through your negative thoughts and insecurities. If you believe in the law, and understand conscious manifesting is the thoughts you focus on, create your reality based on the feelings and meanings you assign to those thoughts. You really, only have two options: keep thinking the thoughts you are thinking now, repeating the old story and getting more of it. Or you can decide to discipline your mind, focus on a new story of what you would like to happen, so that you can manifest what you desire into your 3D. Only you can make this change, no one can do it for you. Remember, you always get what you focus on.
If the old story is causing you too much anxiety, you can always revise it. So instead of focusing on how the situation occurred in the past, you can imagine it happening how you wanted it to be. Then repeat that new scene, until it feels more real than what happened in the past. I revised the argument, with my SP, this took away the anxiety from the past.
He/She said they don’t want to be with me?
Remember circumstances do not matter, because everybody is you pushed out, people will only appear in your reality how you assume they will. They are only telling you these things, based on your insecurities. If you change your thoughts and assumptions about the person and the relationship, they will eventually conform to the new story. Remember, everything is neutral until you give a meaning to it, therefore only assign positive meanings to things in your life and expect the best from everyone.
Did I live in the end?
Yes, I lived from the end in my mind, this is probably the most important part of manifesting. I embodied the person I would be if I were already with my SP. In my mind we were already together in a loving committed relationship. In my mind he was the person I always wanted him to be, and I stayed faithful to that vision regardless of what my 3D reality was showing me. The whole point of techniques, whether you use affirmations, scripting, or SAT’s etc is to put you in the feeling of living from the end. I think this is where most people go wrong, they do techniques in the hope of getting something, but the point is, if you’re doing the techniques correctly, you’d feel like you already have your SP, they’re already with you, they’re calling you, you’re in a perfect relationship. So, there is no more work to do, it’s already done. If this was truly the case, would you be on internet searching for success stories, looking for new techniques and constantly asking questions, probably not, right?
Did I do the mental diet for a set time or all day long?
Mental diet means you observe your thoughts, and ensure you’re only focusing on the thoughts you want to appear in your 3D reality. Your dominant thoughts and assumptions will always manifest. These thoughts are the inner voice and self-talk, that is constantly going on inside your mind. This is what you need to learn to control. What would your thoughts and inner self-talk be if you were already with your SP? Those are the thoughts you should be entertaining all the time. If you already were with your SP in a happy loving relationship, you wouldn’t be thinking, “why hasn’t he called me, it’s been so long” it would more likely be “he loves me so much and he calls me every day” “we’re so happy together”. In my case, I went on a strict mental diet. I completely let go of the past and negative story. I watched all my thoughts and ensured my focus was always on what I wanted.
What affirmations did I use?
It doesn’t matter what words you use, how you say your affirmations, as long as they resonate with you and create a feeling of you already having your desire. The affirmations should be thoughts you would naturally think if you already had your SP. At the beginning you will probably not believe your affirmations, and that’s ok. You’re trying to change the old story into a new story, naturally the mind will want to revert back to the old story because that’s more comfortable and familiar, but if you persist, the mind will eventually start to adapt. That is why repetition and a strict mental diet is so important at the beginning, to replace the old story and convince the mind of the new story.
Did I work on my self-concept or recreate my SP and relationship?
Both, because everyone is you pushed out, the 3D will only reflect back to you, the thoughts you are focusing on. There is no point working on recreating your SP or the perfect relationship, if you do not work on yourself. This journey is always about you and your mindset. Do you have the mindset of someone who is worthy of having your SP, do you feel good enough to be with them, confident that you can get them and keep them? You must embody being the type of person, your SP would want to be with. You’re more likely to believe your SP is crazy about you, if you believe you’re an amazing person. If you believe you’re not pretty or good looking enough, it’s more difficult for the mind to believe you can get someone like your SP.
What did I do when negative thoughts came up?
I reminded myself I was the god of my reality, my thoughts created my 3D world, therefore I could have, be and do whatever I wanted. This made me feel confident that my desire was done, its mine, nothing and nobody could take it away from me. All I had to do was ensure my thoughts were in check, using affirmations and a strict mental diet, helped me live from the end. At the beginning it was hard work, but the more I repeated my affirmations, the more believable they became, and the negative thoughts naturally went away.
What feelings did I have?
Once I decided I wanted to get my SP back, my complete focus was on my end goal. I knew it wouldn’t be easy and it would require discipline and dedication, but I was willing to put in the work to get my perfect relationship. At the beginning the affirmations and mental diet, felt draining, I also had anxiety at times, but I continued to affirm and persist. Eventually, it got to a point, I would think of my SP and naturally the new story would come to mind instead of the negative thoughts and my insecurities were gone. Once I reached this point, I felt calm and confidence, like my desire was already mine, I was convinced it would manifest into my 3D. I had no doubts, conflicting thoughts or attachment. I felt like it was done deal. At this point, I didn’t stop affirming, I continued to affirm. You have to remember; you’re always affirming something with your self-talk. The only difference is once you’re aware of conscious manifesting, you become more aware of the thoughts you’re focusing on and with repetition, the positive thoughts naturally become your dominant thoughts.
Timings, it took you 3 weeks, I have been affirming for months and nothing is happening?
If you’re saying nothing is happening, or this is not working, that is what your focus is on and that’s what you’re affirming, therefore why are you shocked nothing is actually happening. If you truly, were living from the end in your mind, would you be looking at the 3D for reassurance and signs, no you wouldn’t. You would not be questioning the process, you would happily be going on with life, in the conviction your desire is done, you already have your SP, and nothing would be able to move you from that state. The time it takes for something to manifest into the 3D, varies from person to person, therefore I suggest not to compare yourself to others. I feel the reason some people get their manifestations faster than others is because they actually practice, do the work and test the law for themselves. Whilst others keep learning, complaining, questioning, and doubting the process. The more you practice, the quicker the mind will adapt and the faster you will get the results. You just have to ensure you get to a place of living from the end, and just persist and do not give up and revert back to the old story. Once you reach that point, the desire will show up in your 3D, when you least expect it. Remember, it’s not our job to know the when and how, our job is to simply persist in the assumption of the wish fulfilled.