Can you have wealth and success? Of course, you can. You did not come here to live a mediocre life.
The reason you don’t have money in your life at the moment, or not the amount you want, is probably because of the relationship you have with money. You probably think of money as something out of your reach or something that you have to work really hard to obtain. Similar, to an SP, you’ve probably put money on a pedestal.
Manifesting money is just as easy as manifesting anything else. However, when it comes to money, people have set boundaries in their mind of what they think they’re worth and can get or have. These boundaries have probably been programmed into you as a child, based on your family’s circumstances, and these boundaries have now become your beliefs about money. That’s why everybody’s definition of rich is so different. Wealth is not a privilege, it’s a mindset.
Next time, when you think of money, pay close attention to the thoughts that are going on inside your mind, in relation to money. Your self-talk and behaviour will help you to establish what your current relationship is with money and the set boundaries you may be living with.
- Do you get nervous about checking your bank account?
- Do you think you never have enough money no matter what you do?
- Do you think long and hard about purchases?
- Do you think you have to work hard and long hours to make money?
- Do you stress every time you see a bill?
- Do you get anxious about asking for a promotion or pay rise?
- Do you look at the finer things in life as luxuries you’ll never be able to afford?
Also, look at how you view people who are rich and have the lifestyles you aspire to have. Are your thoughts and feeling towards them loving, happy, inspirational and motivational or do they make you feel hate, anger, envy and resentment. If it is the latter, you need to change that immediately. Negativity and envy are the biggest cause of lack and misery in one’s life – Dr Joseph Murphy.
If any of these statements are true for you, you’re probably living with a lack money mindset. However, don’t worry with a little work these past habitual thoughts can easily be changed. To manifest an abundance of money into your life, you just have to change your beliefs and boundaries and develop a new money mindset.
Here is what you need to do, use whatever technique you like visualisation and SATs or Affirmations and Mental Diet, or you can use them all, it’s up to you. Personally, I prefer affirmations and mental diet. We need to change our relationship with money, by changing the thoughts we are thinking. So instead of thinking all the thoughts mentioned above, use the following statements, several times a day on repetition:
- I love money and money loves me
- I am surrounded by wealth and success
- I am a money magnet
- Money flows into my life easily and from everywhere
- I am so rich, I can afford to buy whatever I like
- I have so much money, I don’t know what to do with it
- I love spending money and treating myself because I know it comes back in abundance
- I’m so grateful for my money and luxury lifestyle
- I deserve to be happy, successful, and rich
Select affirmations or statements that resonate with you and bring a feeling of confidence and not lack. This is why, so many people fail with statements like “I am a millionaire” because the mind will automatically say “No you’re not, don’t be so ridiculous”. These statements have more of an uphill battle, fighting with your current beliefs and therefore end up building more beliefs of lack and resistance. Instead, if you say “I am surrounded by wealth and success” “money always flows into my life” this is easier for the mind to digest and accept as real.
If you prefer SATs or visualisation, you can think of a scene where you’re already living the lifestyle you would, if you were rich and successful. Imagine what kind of house would you live in, what car would you drive, where would you shop, and how it would feel if you were there right now.
The reason I prefer to use affirmations and mental diet is because the negative feelings around money, normally come about when you’re about to do something like open a bill or pay for something in a shop. This is the time to catch that thought and quickly flip it. For example, when I pay for something, I have programmed my mind to automatically say, “thank you, I love money, I will get triple the amount back”. Feel happy you have money to spend, enjoy it and it will come back to you in abundance.
Also, change how you see rich and successful people, be happy for them and use them as motivation for your own life. Think if they can do it, so can I, they’re just normal people like me and you. Before, I had the lifestyle I have now, when I use to see successful people. I would always compliment them, “I love your car” “that’s such a beautiful handbag” “what a great watch”. Remember, eventually you will be a part of this circle, and one of them, so what’s there to hate or be jealous off. Some of the people I complimented in the past, ended up becoming my friends, and have been paramount in my success. Being around them has changed my mindset. Wealthy and successful people don’t think of money as something negative, to them it’s something to be enjoyed. Don’t get me wrong, you’re probably thinking it’s easy to think like that if you always have money, but you have to understand it’s not about the actual money but your relationship and money mindset. Some of my friends, have lost large amounts of money, in business, gambling, making poor decisions, but it’s the way they deal with it, they don’t sit there thinking poor me I have lost all that money now my life is over, I’m poor. No, they think, I need to get my act together and make that money back ASAP and it’s going to be easy. All of them have made it back easily and quickly, and no not all of them were born into money. The point is the money or lack of it, doesn’t define them, their motto is I can easily get it.
The aim here is to build a positive mindset to become rich and successful, and reprogram your mind to accept you as someone who is worthy of this lifestyle, not to become a millionaire by winning the lottery. You can do that if you want, you can manifest anything but that won’t guarantee you will keep that money. How many people have won the lottery and lost it all because they didn’t feel worthy of having it! The truly wealthy people have a healthy relationship with money, where they know they have an abundance of wealth and success and they attract it from all areas of life.
It all comes down to your belief system, and ability to convince yourself. If you believe you can then you can, if you believe you can’t then you can’t. You are always right!
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I could not resist commenting. Perfectly written!
Thank you for your blog Sia. I am in debt and I want financial freedom but my mind seems to reject that its possible, even though I manifested my SP back. I want to be a successful trader but I doubt myself and get scared to enter the market and then I end up just watching profitable trades playing out. Can you please suggest what i could do to overcome this? Would love more articles on money and changing physical appearance etc. x
Hi SG, manifesting money and physical appearance is the same as attracting your SP. It is all to do with your relationship with those things, do you believe you are worthy of being a successful trader and being physically attractive? It is all about the mindset, if you are experiencing doubts, the means you have negative conditioning towards these desires and you need to work on those negative thoughts and change them to positives thoughts. The only thing standing in your way, is you and your doubts.