How to deal with your reality whilst manifesting

I get asked so many questions about how to ignore the 3D or how to deal with your current reality, when it is showing you something completely different to what you’re trying to manifest.

In my opinion and personal experience, ignoring your 3D does not mean you ignore what your current reality is and pretend you have something that you don’t. This kind of thinking comes from the law of attraction community, where you are told to “act as if” you already have what you want in the 3D world. Personally, I don’t think that works well, especially if you’re a beginner to conscious manifesting. It can be very difficult to convince your mind, you have something in the 3D, when you clearly don’t. This type of “act as if” can leave you feeling drained, frustrated and thinking you are delusional.

I personally think ignoring your 3D means, ignoring the negative thoughts of the past and current reality, ignoring the circumstances and scenarios that you keep repeating in your mind that no longer serve you. Ignore overthinking thoughts like, because this happened in the past, that means this will not happen in my future etc… Ignoring your 3D to me does not mean you ignore your 3D world altogether, and you go around ignoring your work responsibility, you ignore friends and family, you ignore going out so you can stay home and affirm 24/7. Plus, why would you want to do that, everyday you’re alive is a blessing, enjoy your life, do things that give you happiness and pleasure, don’t waste your time being desperate and pining for your desire. That’s not how it works.

You have to understand the 3D is dead, it’s an illusion based on your past thoughts, there is nothing you can now do to go back and change those thoughts to change your current 3D. All you can do is change the thoughts you are now thinking to change your future reality. That’s why, the work is always done inside the mind not in the 3D. You’re affirming 24/7 therefore you have to ensure your thoughts and self-talk align with your desired end, but in your day to day life you go about your business as normal, you go to work, go to the gym, go out, have fun and live life to the fullest but in your mind ensure your thoughts are positive about your desire because that is what is creating your future reality.

You don’t have to go around pretending you’re with your SP or a millionaire in the 3D, when you’re not but in your mind, your thoughts should be aligned to the desired end.  “I know my SP loves me” “I know I am surrounded by wealth and money” and have the conviction because you’ve declared your desire as yours, even though it may not be in your reality at the moment, you feel 100% confident it will happen soon and nothing can stop it from happening, because you know your thoughts create your reality.

It is the same when something happens in your 3D that is opposite to what you have been affirming. Remember you give anything a meaning, just don’t accept that as true for you. I know when I was manifesting my SP back and something in 3D would come up and start creating negative thoughts. I would just tell myself “no that is not true for me, I don’t accept that”. I would keep affirming “My SP was my husband, and he is so in love with me”. I would say it with so much confidence, until my mind would reject all opposing thoughts.

This is where changing your story based on the past or present is so important, from “they did this” “they don’t want me” “it ended so badly” to something that serves you and aligns with your desired end “of course he loves me” “I know he only wants to be with me”. Even if you are not seeing the results in your 3D at the moment, know that your thoughts and self-talk are creating your tomorrow and if you continue to persist the 3D will conform. Never give up and fall back into the old negative thought pattern.

Remember our thoughts are very powerful, they have telepathic powers, we are communicating with people miles away, who we may not have even spoken to in a while, by our thoughts. Imagine, other people could hear every thought you were thinking, and they used those thoughts as instructions for their actions. Would you be thinking what you’re thinking now, knowing that could create in your reality? People will always appear in your life, how you assume they will appear. Start to understand the power of your mind and use your thoughts wisely, to consciously create what you want instead of what you don’t want.

Once you declare something as yours, and stay true to that desire with full conviction, it has no choice but to appear in your 3D.

“Claim you are what you want to be. Persist in that assumption. Continue to assume that role until that which you have assumed is reflected in your world.” – Neville

Persisting simply means you focus your thoughts on your desired end, until it is reprogrammed into your subconscious mind and becomes your dominant thought. Even though, you may not see your desire in the 3D right now, you do not know what is happening in the background to bring your desire to you. Therefore, always continue to persist until your desire shows up in your reality and remain faithful to the fact your manifestation is on its way.

Don’t worry too much about the 3D and what’s going on around you. Get into the habit of learning to control your thoughts and mindset. Realise, it doesn’t matter if you have a negative thought or event pop up, it doesn’t have any power over you, and you can easily change it. Start to practice controlling your thoughts and redirecting them. Remind yourself all your desires are being fulfilled, everything is working out for you in your favour, you know how to manifest, and you always get what you want.

The only thing that can stop you having your desire, is you! Your continuous focus on the past, present and negative thoughts. Change your mindset, to focus on what you want and slowly your 3D world will conform.

So, it’s simple! Declare what you want as yours, ensure your thoughts are aligned and focused on the new story and continue to persist in that new story. Live your life in the 3D as normal, enjoy life knowing that even though your desire may not be here yet, but because you have declared it as yours and you know your thoughts create, it will be here very soon. There is nothing to worry about, nothing to fake, just go on with life knowing you will get everything you ever wanted and much more.

44 thoughts on “How to deal with your reality whilst manifesting

      1. Yes, the 3D is based on your past thoughts so you can’t change anything in the 3D, it’s too late. Your thoughts now are creating your future reality, so they have to be focused and aligned with what you want in the future.

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      2. In varies from person to person, it depends on your negative thought patterns and how long it takes you to convince your subconscious mind. The mind learns with repetition, so the more work you put in the quicker the results.

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  1. So it’s ok if we get angry to our current 3d or some circumstances but knowing and sure that our sp is going to come back ?

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    1. Yes, it’s ok to get angry as you’re only human, but what’s important is you do not dwell or focus on those thoughts or feelings for too long. You feel the emotion and move on.

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  2. What i desire and imagine is so different from my current 3D that how do I convince myself what I’m seeing in my mind will manifest in form of 3D. Like so many things need to happen for me to get married to my SP

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    1. ” Like so many things need to happen for me to get married to my SP” those are just circumstances which don’t matter but if that is your story that is what will continue to happen, so many things will need to happen for you to get your SP. You need to find a way to convince and reprogram your mind that works for you.

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  3. Effectively what you are saying with this article is we stay normal in the 3D but in our mind we don’t accept it as final. We continue our self talk internally from the view of our desire already being done and the subsequent thoughts like my SP is an amazing husband to me. Eventually 3D will conform.

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  4. My salary is stuck due to some bank issue. How do I deal with it? I don’t feel like going to the bank to resolve it. I want my imagination to do it

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      1. Seriously is that your response n you teach imagination is Reality? Either this works on all things or nothing. Can’t be working on some things n not others

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      2. Firstly, I don’t claim to teach anything nor do I claim to be an expert at this. The blog is based on my personal experience of how I consciously manifest and I’ve manifested a lot of things. I have also mentioned in almost every post consciously manifesting takes dedication and discipline to control the mind. It is not voodoo or black magic to click your fingers and get what you want as a quick fix. Yes, once you’re able to control your mind to that level you can manifest anything you want. My response to your question was there is an easier solution, pick up the phone and speak to the bank, that is what I would personally do if I was you but if you want to manifest it instead then yes that is also possible.

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  5. There is a person at work who stalked me. I know it was because of some belief in me but I want him gone forever now. I do my mental diet and rubbing out technique but he is still at my work place. I don’t know what to do. Why am I not seeing any change ?

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    1. I would affirm he is no longer bothering me or whatever your desired goal is. When you see him, what are the thoughts you focus on? “he is still here” etc if that is the case, that is what you’re getting. Check the thoughts and inner conversations, you’re entertaining about him.

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      1. Yes when I see him I think he is still there. That’s a natural reaction to seeing him in 3D. What do I think when I see him ? He is there but he wifi away ???

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      2. Yes, that’s the natural reaction but that is when you have to be on top of your thoughts, and control them and affirm what you want, being on a strict mental diet means you are able to redirect your thoughts, 24/7 not just when you’re affirming and even when the reality is showing you the opposite to what you want. This is where you need to persist in your assumption.

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  6. Hello! I’ve recently been fojng great at managing my thoughts and reacting to the 3d. But recently this one person reminded me of that girl that my sp used to have a crush on and I still dont know if he does because he got caught having her on his phone as a wallpaper and that made me very sad and she even knows about it and there were my sps fans interacting with her and hyping her up and that made me very afraid. She is my biggest nightmare and I dont know how to get rid of her for good. She is bisexual and I dont know if that’s a safe pass for me but I cant get her out of my head because she has been my biggest fear since 2017. Can I please have any advice on how to handle this?

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    1. Hi, everything you’ve mentioned here are just circumstances, that you’re giving a negative meaning too. The only way to get rid of a 3P is to ignore them, the more you think about them and focus on them, the more you’re keeping them in your reality. Change your story about her.

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  7. Hi Sia could you please direct me to where Neville has stated what I can imagine and perceive I can get in my 3D as regards an SP

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    1. Hi Jaya, of course in the law and the promise, Neville speaks about a woman who attended one of his lecturers, who manifested and married her SP. The story is of Mrs J.E.

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    1. What do you mean by what I desire is real? Every desire has the ability to be real if your thoughts align with it, you can have it in your 3D reality.

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  8. Like what I imagine as my desire, so specific, like marriage with SP, is that real ? Exist in some sphere ? Possible to achieve or am I delusional?

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    1. Every desire you have has the ability to be real, you wouldn’t have a desire if you were not meant to experience it. The only thing preventing you from experiencing it is your negative thoughts and story about your desire.

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  9. Should i stay in strict No contact while manifesting my sp back ? Sometimes i just feel and have that big desire to contact her and trying to explain myself

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    1. It is up to you if you stay in contact or not. If you contact them it has to be from a place of confidence not desperation. If they don’t respond how you want, it won’t impact you.

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  10. But it has been so long I’m trying to manifest this desire and it has not happened. Is it even possible now ? That’s why asked if it’s possible

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  11. Nothing can impact me or my manifestation, my desire is mine and i’ll manifest it no matter what 💪
    Thank you so much Sia

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  12. Recently i keep dreaming about my SP, wonderful dreams, sharing lovely moments. Just wanted to know what does it mean profoundly?

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  13. I keep getting what they call hot and cold, I guess? I stay on top of my thoughts constantly, almost obsessively im even worried to even put this here for that reason. I would like to pick someone’s brain. It comes then it goes, my desire. Tell me does that mean it’s close? I get so many other things CLOSE to this desire and one more desire but not the full thing. What can I do to change this? Also can you really ask the Universe for a sign and then that sign shows up, as I did, but is it a real thing?
    Tanya ,

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    1. If you’re getting hot and cold behaviour it means your thoughts and self concept is not consistent. Your 3D is literally a reflection of your inner world and thoughts. Something means what you think it means, you give everything a meaning in your life, therefore you decide not ask. The universe and answers are always within you, they are not separate from you.

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