At the moment, are you the one who is begging, wanting and chasing the SP? Well, that’s all about to change. Is it possible to flip this scenario around, so your SP is begging, wanting, and chasing you? Of course, it is, and this is how to flip it around easily!
The reason your SP has all the power right now, is because you have given it to them. Are you constantly thinking any of the following thoughts?
- They are so perfect
- I am not good enough for them
- They can get anyone they want
- Why would they want to be with someone like me?
- I need to always be available for them otherwise they will find someone else.
- Are you always bending over backwards to make them happy?
- They never call or arrange to meet you?
- Do you always fear them leaving you?
If any of these statements are true, that means you have put your SP on a pedestal and are viewing them as some sort of god or goddess. They are so high up on that pedestal, that you can never reach them. Everybody is you pushed out, therefore, the vibe you’re giving off to your SP is, you’re not good enough for them. If you’re not good enough for them, and they can do better than you. Why would they ever want to be with you? Would you want to be with someone, who you thought wasn’t good enough for you? I bet you the answer would be NO, right? As humans, we always want what we can’t have or something that we feel is desirable to us and there is nothing desirable about a desperate, needy person begging for your attention.
When they pull back, you chase them out of insecurities and fear, but all this is doing is pushing them further away, because all your thoughts are of desperation and lack. Instead of chasing, begging and over contacting them, you must align your thoughts with what you do want and the desired end.
If you are serious about getting your SP to chase you, the first thing you must do is, take them of the pedestal. Realise, they are just a normal person, there is nothing special about them. That you are giving them this much power to treat you like a second-class citizen. The first step to getting your power back, is to take your SP of the pedestal and put yourself on there instead. Remember, you are the creator of your own reality, therefore you should be the most important person in your world. People will always treat you, how you allow them to treat you.
To put yourself on that pedestal, you must work on your self-concept. The best way to do this is to fully accept and recognize, that your imagination and thoughts are what is creating your reality, and you and only you are in control of your world. You accept that you’re the most important person in your life, no one can do anything to you, without your permission. Therefore, you should write a new story about yourself, where you’re the god or goddess on that pedestal. Feel super confident, highlight all your good points, why someone would want to be with you, all the things you have to offer them and how they’re lucky to have someone like you. This new version of you, should be the person, your SP would want to pursue to date, you’d be the priority, and someone no one can resist. Basically, you’re reversing the roles in your new story, instead of you chasing your SP, now they are chasing and begging to be with you. It doesn’t matter, if you don’t believe these things at first, if you keep repeating them, it’ll soon start to feel real.
Now you’ve recreated yourself into this super confident god or goddess. You need to do the same with your SP, recreate them to be the kind of person you want them to be. Create a new story, where they are constantly pursuing you, they’re always calling you, they are doing everything you ever wanted. They are the perfect partner, and you have the perfect relationship. You must focus on what you want, instead of what you are current getting in the 3D world. Your SP does not have any free will in your reality, you aren’t forcing them to do anything. You are simply changing your perception of them. All you’re now doing is creating a more favourable version of them, by directing your thoughts in a more conscious way. Remember you’re the star of your show, the SP is just an extra in your film, keep this in mind when you’re recreating your story.
This new story you’ve created about yourself and your SP, is your living from the end. You can create a list of affirmations, script, or visualise an end scene, to keep yourself in this new story or state. Of being in the perfect relationship with your SP, where they’re constantly pursuing you. Keep repeating this new story whenever your SP comes to mind. The aim is to replace the current story, where your SP is ignoring you or not treating you how you’d like them too with this new desired story, where the SP is now pursuing you. As always, repetition and persistence are the key, the more you replace the old story with the new story, the quicker it will impress on your subconscious mind and appear in your 3D reality. Remember everyone is you pushed out (EIYPO), change your assumptions about your SP and relationship and they will change and conform, it’s the law. All you must do is ensure you keep a strict mental diet to persist in the new story until it appears in your 3D world. Remember, all this work is done in your mind, all your thoughts must align with the desired end. The 3D is only an echo of your past thoughts; therefore, it is irrelevant. The more disciplined and dedicated you are to the new story, the quicker it will happen. If you persist in the new story for long enough, eventually this will be reflected into your 3D, it is inevitable.
I have mentioned this in my SP success story. The mental diet is the most important part, and it must be a lifestyle change. Getting the SP back is the easy part, keeping them and getting them to stay in your 3D reality as the person you want them to be, requires a complete change in your mindset. You cannot just do it temporarily to get your SP back and then revert back to the old way of thinking. Otherwise, you will get them back and lose them again, once the old negative thoughts start to come back. Hence, why you must ensure you stay on top of your mental diet, and understand your thoughts are creating your life on a daily basis, so only entertain the thoughts, you’d like to manifest into your reality.
Remember, this is your life, your story, so make it a good one.