Recently during my coaching sessions and answering questions over email and on Reddit. I have noticed a similar pattern in the people who are not getting the results as fast as other people.
Firstly, it’s the people who keep repeating the old story from the 3D world. You are a slave to your circumstances, what went wrong and why you’re so hurt. You tell me, you tell your family, your friends, the neighbour, the postman. You think your circumstances are more impossible, and more difficult to get over than other peoples. Let me tell you, your circumstances are not any more unusual than anybody else’s. Everyone who has lost a loved one, feels heart-broken, everyone who is poor feels frustrated and helpless but the difference between the people who get their manifestations and who don’t, is the ones who do, know how to let go of the past and negativity and work towards a better future. Every time you repeat the old story, you are just affirming that you don’t have something, so that becomes your dwelling state. Be 100% honest with yourself, if you’re repeating the old story more than the new desired story, that means you’re still living in the past and that is where your dominant thoughts are coming from. Majority of your time is spent complaining and moaning about the past and what happened, rather than looking forward towards what you do want and making it happen.
Secondary, it’s the people who keep looking for evidence in the 3D world, they don’t understand the current reality is just an echo of their past thoughts. They don’t fully accept the concept their own imagination and thoughts create the reality. They will affirm or do SAT’s for a few days and then start expecting to see results in the 3D world, and when they don’t see any change, or something opposite happens to their desire in the 3D world. They lose confidence in their ability to manifest and fall back into the old story. They keep focusing on what’s not happening and saying it’s not working. Then it doesn’t work because your attention is on the lack and it not working, and that is what you’re getting more off.
Another thing people tend to do is jump from one technique to another, or look for the latest magic technique that will manifest the desire quickly for them, but what tends to happen is they are not giving a technique enough time to impregnate the subconscious mind before moving onto the next. The subconscious mind learns with repetition, so you have to persist until your manifestation shows up in the 3D world, but because they’re giving up before they’ve given it enough time, they get stuck in the circle of techniques. You have to understand there is no quick fix, the purpose of the technique is to help you feel like the desire is already yours, and dwell in that state. You won’t believe or feel it at first, because it has an uphill battle with the current beliefs but eventually if you persist for long enough, the mind will accept it as true.
This last point I am going to mention, because I’ve been asked about it a few times now, so I think it’s worth addressing. Psychics and tarot readers, I have nothing against them but if you are following the law of assumption, and you believe your thoughts and imagination create your reality than that completely contradicts the purpose of a psychic and tarot readers. Personally, I think they’re just you pushed out, the good ones can pick up on your thoughts, what you’re thinking at that particular time about a situation. Others, plant a seed in your mind, they tell you something, you keep thinking about it, repeating it, then you start to believe it and then it appears in your reality, because you have manifested it, not because a psychic has predicted it. Therefore, in my opinion, save your money and use it to treat yourself to a nice relaxing massage and use that time to repeat your SAT’s or affirmations.
If you read my previous post, you’ll know the subconscious mind is what is creating your reality, but the subconscious mind is habitual, it will give back to you what you keep feeding it, so if you keep telling it, your old story, your current circumstances, or repeating it’s not working, what do you think the subconscious mind is going to give you more off.
Think of it like this, you’re going on a journey in your car, and you’re using a satnav to give you directions, to get to your end location. Imagine on the way you get stuck in traffic, and you start using google maps and change your route, then you get stuck in another jam, instead of staying on the road and persisting through the traffic, you use another app to find a faster route, and you keep changing routes and apps for directions every time you hit a small jam. Of course, this is going to cause delays or even worse you’re going to get so frustrated with the journey, that you’re just going to give up, turn back and go home.
To manifest your desire into the 3D world, your focus must be on the desired end, what you want, be as specific as possible. Use whatever technique you like to help you remain in that place, it doesn’t matter, what end scene you imagine or how you say your affirmations, what words you use, all that matters is when you do your technique you feel good, and confident. Make sure you stick to that one chosen technique. You have to remember your imagination is the only true reality, therefore, to create something into your 3D world you have to control where your mind is going. You don’t have to believe something 100% in order to manifest it. You literally have to get to the 51% mark, where your mind is occupied by your desired thoughts more than the past or current reality. You will know you’re at that point when you have full confidence your desire is yours, nothing can take it away from you, it’s inevitable, even if it’s not happened yet, it will and nothing can stop it from happening. When you get to that point, it’s done.
The reason the time it takes to manifest something into the 3D world, varies from person to person, is because it is dependent on how long it takes you to impress your subconscious mind with the desire. The more disciplined and dedicated you are, the quicker it will happen. Every time you question or doubt it, you’re just delaying the process.
At the end of the day, thoughts backed with feelings turn into beliefs and it’s the beliefs that manifest. You don’t get what you want, you get what you believe you think you will get and deserve. Keep going, persist and don’t take NO for an answer.
Imagination is Life 
Dear SIA. I like this post. It’s true as you say. My issue is I am testing the law and I get results but how to be sure it works for SP too. I want to reconcile with SP and marry SP. currently no contact. How do I believe what I see in my mind about already being married to SP and living abroad with him , will come true. Is it my mere imagination fancy or what I see in my human imagination a sort of parallel quantum reality?
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Hi Diana, I’ve mentioned this in the Focus to make yourself believe post. The only way to build your faith in the law is to continuously test it for yourself. Test it with other people, other relationships that you may have less resistance too. I can tell you it works all day long, but you will only fully believe it when you yourself see results. The way I use to look at it, when I was manifesting my SP was, what do I have to lose by fully dedicating myself to the law, if it’s true and works, I get my SP back, if it doesn’t work I am in the same boat, so by trying I don’t really lose anything. Also, do you see a correlation of your past thoughts and current situation? That helped me see the law worked, because I could see the correlation between my negative thoughts and situation I had manifested. So all I had to do to get my desire was do the same thing in reverse.
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Wonderful. Thank you for taking the time to reply. I really appreciate it. Also is my desire a mere imagination fantasy or another possible quantum reality?
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You’re welcome, anything you can imagine, already exists and that means you can have it. You only have to declare it as yours and remain in that place and have faith. Anything you desire, desires you. You wouldn’t have a desire, if it was not meant to be yours 🙂
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My worries rise when I think how will it happen cause we are no contact. And so much has to change for us to be married… like families have to meet etc
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Circumstances don’t matter, and how it will happen is not your job. You’re still repeating the old story and will keep on facing these obstacles until you’re able to think from the new story of what you desire. That has to be your dominant thoughts. I would suggest reading Neville and familiarising yourself with his work.
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And I change the story by mental diet ?
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You can use whatever technique you like affirmations, SATs, scripting. The point of the mental diet is to keep all your thoughts positive and not to entertain any negative thoughts. You have to convince your subconscious mind your desired reality is now your reality, that is when it will manifest into the 3D.
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Ok. Thanks.I need to convince my sub conscious mind that I’m already my Sp’s wife and loved
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SIA !!!! YOU’RE A GENIUS !!
I started affirming that I was employed at Company A with a specific title and specific salary.
I had a friend who worked there and the salary I was affirming for was 1/3rd more than she was making (she’s left and returned to her home country ) … however whenever I affirmed I would always mix up the salary I wanted sometimes saying I wanted 20k and sometimes 25k.
Today they posted the vacancy online and they’ve put the salary range as 20-25k 😀 .. I feel like I have manifested this.
I’ve applied to the post just now.
Between now and the interview and the joining what should I do to ensure that I don’t ruin any chance of getting through?
Of course, now I want to be paid 25k 😛
Also, circumstances don’t matter right .. so even if there are candidates with more experience than me, etc I should still get the job and the desired salary … and yes I totally see the relation now between past thoughts and current reality. I just want to ensure that I don’t screw this up .. I’m so excited today !!!
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Well done, you have definitely manifested this and I’m so proud of you. Declare the job as already yours, you have got it. Please stop saying things like I don’t want to ruin my chances. Remember that too is an affirmation, your thoughts create. You should be affirming things like:
• I always get every job I want
• It was so easy to get this job
• I am the perfect candidate for this role
• My boss thinks I’m amazing and I’m the best person for the job
Circumstances do not matter; this role is yours it’s a done deal and no one can take it away from you. Now you just have to affirm and keep a clean mental diet, do not entertain any thoughts apart from this job is already yours 😊 good luck x
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This is what I’ve been affirming since yesterday (after applying )
Please let me know if you think that’s good
I asked one of my friends to ask the head chef to refer me to corporate but I haven’t heard back on whether he would want to grant me the favor yet .. however, I have been affirming the below :
I am the HR Manager with X company
I make a monthly salary of Y
Chef XYZ referred me there (isn’t it wonderful)
The interview was quick and easy and I was hired on the spot with no negotiations
My boss thinks I am perfect for this role
I enjoy the freedom and authority at work
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Those affirmations are perfect, but don’t react to the 3D, like I’ve not heard from my friend, change that to my friend has given me an amazing recommendation, the job is already yours 🙂
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Sia… I got an email from the hiring authority that they filled the position… I was bummed out at first but then decided to persist in the assumption … how do I do that? Do I simply continue to say my affirmations and ignore that email? I also assigned some +ve meaning to receive the email since I received it straight from the COO.. so what I’ve been telling myself is that at least now I know that the COO has seen my cv and profile and that it’s not lying with someone who doesn’t have the hiring authority.
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Just revise it on the spot, remember what Neville said “Do you always turn to your imagination and, no matter what happens, do you remain faithful to the state imagined? If you do, you have passed the test. But if every little rumour, doubt, or fear can move you around like a pawn on a chessboard, then you are not keeping the faith!” Don’t take no for an answer, what you desire is yours if your remain faithful to it.
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Do I keep up the affirmations ?
I’ve been doing that ..
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Don’t force the affirmations, but when the job comes to mind that is when you affirm.
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Hey Sia. I am a regular at reading this blog. Thank you for taking the time to make it and update it. It is really helpful for ammetuers like myself. I have been trying to manifest by SP back and get married to him. Earlier I used to be into LOA etc. I always managed to attract him back but my fears that he will leave eventually happened and we have an on off relationship. But I now have a deep desire to reconcile with him. From your blogs I know if I have a desire means it exists in the quantum field. How can I work on believing he will stay with me forever?
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Thank you, attracting an SP is the easy part, keeping them is a struggle. In order to keep them forever you have to have a strict mental diet and a very strong self concept.
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Like how to have strong self concept? What to do to get that and mental diet like what ? And why do I have such a strong desire if I’m not manifesting it as yet
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If you have a desire, that’s means you are meant to experience it in life, if you want too. Self concept is your self love and self confidence, it has to be strong because everyone is you pushed out.
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Yes I want to experience this in life. I mean being married to my SP and having a family with him. But how do I ignore the senses of no contact? And this pandemic that has created barriers. According to you what would be the natural self talk of some one with great self love and confidence?
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It depends on your past situation, insecurities and desired end, the self talk is individual to everyone, hence why I say use affirmations or techniques that resonate with you.
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Ok. Do you give coaching?
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Yes, send me the details on the email in the contact section and I will see if I can help.
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Thank you for sharing! Awesome points and great content! Web Traffic baby! Websites can’t survive without it!
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Hi Sia, loving your articles, going through them one at a time even though I know I should be sleeping right now haha.
This article on timing has made me curious on your opinion or input on the topic of “What does the other person feel/think once you start affirming/manifesting for them” like the whole process behind what goes on in their head once you start affirming?
Is there a time lag involved here too, once you start affirming, do they immediately get something happening to them or does it take a while for like the first step to happen to them? Not sure if all that makes sense but just curious plus I don’t see a lot of videos or articles around this topic/question
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The time lag isn’t about the other person, it is how quickly and strongly you believe something. What they think and feel will be dependent on what your thoughts are about them and yourself, they are only conforming to your thoughts and beliefs about you and the relationship.
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Hi
Thank you for responding.. just wondering, is this something that starts happening to them immediately when we start affirming for them and keep a strict mental diet and shut the old stuff quickly too and change the story..
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It is dependent on your belief system and thoughts on how quickly the SP will conform. Some take days, weeks or years.
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What were your beliefs in regards to this as it happened in 3 weeks for you?
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If you read the blog post about my SP, I have mentioned I was always confident and had the belief I can get any man I want, but other insecurities led me to my negative thoughts. My affirmations were still based on myself, my relationship and my SP, not just my SP.
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