Can you recreate a person to appear in your life, exactly how you want them to? The answer is always, Yes.
It is completely possible to recreate someone and change their behaviour, this is not a violation of their free will. The reason you have the power to change and recreate someone is because everyone is you pushed out; they are a manifestation of you. We as humans are used to thinking of ourselves as one thing and then the rest of the world as something separate to us but in reality there is no us and them because the whole vast world is you pushed out.
All the situations you have encountered are projections of your thoughts and imagination, that have manifested into the 3D world. The things you’ve experienced in life and how people treat you, haven’t just happened to you. You have created it yourself through your thoughts, beliefs, fears and assumptions. Since you created these situations in the first place, you also have the power to change it and recreate it, however you want and whenever you want.
If you are sitting there feeling helpless, because you have tried everything to change your specific person. You have argued, begged, cried, in the hope your specific person would listen, understand, and respond more positively. However, everything you have tried has failed. That is because you are trying to change them in the 3D world. Nothing can appear in the 3D world, that wasn’t first imagined in the mind.
You also can’t hold this against your specific person or blame them for the current circumstances. They are just you pushed out, they can only appear in your life; the way you assume and believe they will appear, they reflect your thoughts. You are creating your reality through your thoughts, whether you’re doing it consciously or unconsciously. Therefore, the way they’ve appear in your life now, was created by you but was done using your past autopilot habitual thoughts and assumptions. To change your specific person in the 3D world, you must first change them in your mind.
Now that you understand that you created them like this, you can start to change them and consciously recreate them. When it comes to recreating a specific person, is that violating their free will? The answer to that is always No! The reason, why it’s not a violation of their free will is because you aren’t forcing them to do anything. You are simply changing your perception of them. All you’re now doing is creating a more favourable version of them, by directing your thoughts in a more conscious way.
So, how do you recreate your specific person. Firstly, what I suggest you do is make a list of all the things that annoy you or you’re unhappy with. Think about it clearly, when you think of the situation and your SP, what comes to mind, the specific things you want to change in your person. Now use the things you have highlighted on your original list, as a guide to create a new list. The new list should consist of all the things you want in an ideal situation. How do you want your person to behave and treat you. This new list will form your affirmations, that you will use to affirm to yourself the new story. Every time your mind tries to revert back to the old thoughts or react to the 3D world. You will use this list of affirmations and a mental diet, as a reminder to see your person in a way you want them to be, instead of how they currently are. You will repeat the new list of affirmations on a regular basis, to overwrite the past habitual thoughts. Now imagine how it would feel, if what you were affirming was already true.
Think of your thoughts as instructions for the other person. Imagine they can overhear everything that is going on inside your mind. Therefore, only entertain thoughts about them, that you’d like them to act upon in the 3D world. Remember that assumptions, although false, will harden into fact. If you assume your specific person acts or is a certain way and you think those thoughts on a regular basis, those will become your dominant thoughts. That means your specific person must conform to that, and appear that way in your life, it’s the law.
So, for example one thing that use to annoy me about my SP was, he would get so distracted by his work and forget to message me back. I could argue with him about it in the 3D world but there is no point, because he will do what is going on inside my mind and thoughts at the time, which was he is so selfish, he doesn’t care about my feelings and that is what would manifest. So instead, I changed it in my mind, to he always messages me, to tell me what is happening. Now he messages me and says, “sorry babe working, call you later”. If I had addressed it in the 3D world, it would have just caused an argument and he would have carried on as normal but because I changed it in my mind to what I wanted, he automatically does that now. He had to conform to my new assumptions of him.
Try it next time, it will work. Imagine you had a mark on your face and you were trying to get rid of it by cleaning the mirror, there is no point cleaning the reflection in the mirror, you have to clean your face for the face to appear clean in the mirror.