Can you get your SP back and have them treat you exactly how you want? Of course, you can! All your desires are there for you to have because everything you desire, desires you. If you can see it in your imagination, you can bring it into your reality.
Basically, you need to understand your thoughts and inner self talk is what is controlling your SP and their behaviour towards you. That is why when you’re able to control your thoughts, you can intend for them to show up in your life, however you want them too. Think of your thoughts as instructions for them in your life, they will only act and do things that you assume and expect them to do. Therefore, if you assume, they love you, they miss you and only want to be with you. That is exactly how they must appear in your life.
The best way to recreate your SP and relationship, is by changing the story you’re running in your mind about them. Completely forget about what has happened in the past, what has been done and said. That is no longer relevant, nor does it serve you. The dominant thoughts you focus on majority of the time, will always manifest. Therefore, whenever you’re thinking of your SP, ensure you always concentrate on the good memories and qualities about them and your relationship. Focus on how you want the future with them to be. Instead of rehashing the past and attracting more of that into your life. Stop robbing your SP of the ability to come into your life as a loving, caring and loyal person. Remember, you give everything a meaning in your life, learn to only see the good in everything, because you will always find what you look for in people. If you look for the good, you will see the good, if you look for the bad, you’ll find the bad.
Remind yourself your SP does not exist outside of you, they don’t have any free will in your world, therefore they are not thinking anything, you don’t want them too. They do not have the ability to hurt or reject you, unless you give them that power over you Therefore, do not allow the 3D world or them to dictate your feelings or emotions. All that matters is what you’re thinking and the thoughts you’re entertaining about them and the relationship. Remember, the work is always done inside the mind, and not in the 3D. That is why it is so important to ignore them and concentrate on what you want, because you always get what you focus on. They are only mirroring back to you your inner thoughts, as soon you start to change your thoughts, you’ll notice them starting to change and conform. Once you start seeing movement, this will help to build your belief system.
The key is to persist. Circumstance do not matter, if they say or do something that you do not like, just ignore it and tell yourself that is not true for me. Immediately forget about what has been said or done and jump back onto your affirmations. You need to stop the negative thoughts and feelings spiralling out of control, by redirecting your mind to the desired situation. Every time you think of your SP or the past, that is when you should be affirming.
Your belief in your desire, must be stronger and more real than your fears and what the 3D is currently showing you. Once your desired end is more real to you than the 3D, and the circumstances in your current reality no longer impact you emotionally. That is when your reality will start to swift and bring your desire to you. You do not have to lift a single finger, the world around you will conform and everything will come to you.
Even if you have been affirming for a while, never give up and doubt the process because you do not know what is happening in the background to bring your desire to you. People and things can be moving that you may not even know about. If it is taking longer than expected, you should truly be honest and assess yourself. Every time you think of your SP, are you affirming and focusing on the new story, or are you still dwelling in the memories of the past. If it is the latter, you need to change that immediately and ensure your focus is on your desired end.
The moment you feel like giving up, that is the moment you need to affirm the hardest and persist in your desire and claim it as yours, because that is just your minds way of testing you, to see if you will stay true to your desire or fall back into your negative thought patterns.
Just persist and never give up on your dreams. Nothing is out of your reach if you really want it.