This is a requested post; I hope to provide some clarity on the topic. I think there is so much confusion around living in the end, due to the law of attraction community. Based on my personal experience of conscious manifesting, living in the end is not about pretending your desire is yours or acting as if in the 3D. Walking around acting like your SP is with you or spending money like you are a millionaire. I find trying to do this, is what makes people feel exhausted and delusional. As Neville stated what is in your imagination is more real than what’s in the 3D, therefore, the living in the end should be done in your mind, it’s a state of mind. So, there is no need to act or pretend.
To live in the end, you must identity what your actual end goal is, for example some people will say they want contact from an SP, but what they actually want is to be in a loving committed relationship, or people will say they want to have a certain amount of money but what they actually want is to be rich and successful. Can you see the difference? Don’t get me wrong, you can definitely manifest in steps but to live in the end, you must always have site of your end goal. Otherwise, you’ll manifest contact from your SP or a certain amount of money but that would be the end of the manifestation.
Living in the end, basically means you’re confident what you desire is yours, it’s on it’s way and you’ll get it no matter what. It’s about changing your current assumptions and beliefs, to align with your end goal. “All you can possibly need, or desire is already yours. Call your desires into being by imagination and feeling your wish fulfilled” – Neville Goddard.
The feeling Neville is referring to is not a feeling of happiness or excitement, these are all emotions. The feeling Neville is talking about, is a feeling of confidence, faith and belief. A feeling of knowing it’s done. Therefore, you don’t have pretend you’re happy all the time or act like you have something you don’t. You simply live in your 3D, like you will get what you want, it is guaranteed to come to you. You don’t have to worry or be desperate for it, it’s yours.
Once you desire something, know that it is already yours, you can have it. The techniques (affirmations, SATs, scripting) are there to help you live in the end and remind you, that your desire is yours. Techniques are a reminder of your desire, not a way to get your desire, because your desire is already yours. If you accept, your desire is given to you by your god self, then there is nothing to fear, you don’t have to do techniques 24/7 to get what is already yours. The techniques are there to aid you during the times of doubt.
Remember you are human therefore, the doubts, fears and negative thoughts will pop up from time to time. It is ok to acknowledge them and accept that is how you feel in this moment. You don’t have to try to supress those feelings, just let them past. However, it is important to not dwell or focus on those thoughts. This is the time to persist and remind yourself, that your thoughts create and you’re in control and you will get what you want, never let anything contradict your desire. You won’t be able to manifest, if you’re constantly contradicting your desire, you can’t serve two masters at once. This is what causes delays in your manifestation. If you continue to assume your desire is yours, it has no choice but to harden into fact, it’s the law.
Monitor your thoughts and inner conversations, see how you speak about your desire and the world around you; this will give you a clear indication of your current state of mind. Stop focusing on the thoughts of lack and desperately needing your desire. To live in the end is simply knowing that the thing that you desire is coming, it’s inevitable, that is all it takes for it to manifest.
Creation is finished, once you have a desire it is yours, it already exists, there is nothing to create. You must accept the desire is yours in your mind. Live in the end by not allowing any thoughts, doubts or fears to contradict your desire. Your faith in your desire must be stronger than any fear or doubt. Remain confident it will soon appear in your 3D reality and it will. You can have anything you want, the only person you must convince is yourself.
Imagination is Life 
Thanks Sia! you’re the best 🙂
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You’re welcome 🙂
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Sia, sometimes I’m doing really good,(I think about sp and think hes my boyfriend, I feel peaceful, knowing…) but then other days I start doubting! and going back to the old stoy. altough I feel the thoughts from the end are now more than those that are negative, having those moments really discourage me, I’m afraid that means the work I’m doing it’s changing nothing in my mind. Does it really mean that, or should I just keep persisting until the moments of doubt are less and less? sometimes I feel it’s a never ending cycle of the two stories, I just want to really get it right…
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Hi, it’s ok to have doubts and negative thoughts, that’s natural and you’re only human, so don’t stress this won’t ruin your manifestation. During those times, you have to persist and remind yourself your desire is yours, it’s a done deal it’s on it’s way no one can take it away from you. Don’t allow those doubts to let you spiral, control them. You are doing it right, you make the rules in your reality.
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Hi Sia,
the moment I have a desire, my only job is to live like – “ITS MINE AND ITS GOING TO COME NO MATTER WHAT”, right?
most of the time I am living in the end but sometimes my mind wonders where is it, why isn’t here yet, I am doing this since long but why I am not seeing any results yet etc. please help me with this, thanks
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That’s right, once you desire something it’s yours, it’s on it’s way, your only job is to go on in life like it’s guaranteed to come. Thoughts like these where is it, why isn’t here yet, I am doing this since long but why I am not seeing any results yet etc will delay your manifestation because it shows you don’t truly believe and have faith your desire is yours. When these doubts come up, it’s your job to remind yourself, it’s a done deal the desire is coming. When you place an order online, you make payment and wait for delivery, you don’t keep looking to see if the parcel has arrived every 5 mins, you patiently wait because you know 100% your order will arrive. Its the same thing with the manifestation.
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Thanks for the help, Sia
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Another great article! You seriously have some of the best content out there on this subject!
What is your opinion on contacting your SP? Say you hear from them once every few months but your relationship isn’t quite where you want it to be and you used to have a real relationship with them before and managed to manifest them contacting you after many months which is already a first great step. Should you contact them? Or would it be checking the 3D for reassurance? Thanks again! 😊
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Thank you for the lovely feedback and I’m so glad you like the blog. It is ok to contact your SP, but where is the desire to contact them coming from! Is it because you just want to speak to them and feel 100% confident they’ll reply how you want or if they didn’t answer the way you want, you’d still be ok and won’t fall back to the old story, then it’s ok to contact them. If it’s because you feel needy or desperate, like if I don’t contact them they won’t contact me, then I recommend you don’t contact them. The 3D is only reflecting back what is going on in your mind, if you want contact, affirm they contact you all the time, you’re in an amazing relationship, so why wouldn’t they contact you. I hope that helps 🙂
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Thanks so much Sia!!! You’re an angel! I guess it’d be mostly from a needy place in my case…to check if the 3D is conforming or not so I won’t do it until I get into a peaceful, knowing state. I will affirm he contacts me instead! 😊
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Remember EIYPO so they will only do what you assume they will do. If you feel like contacting them, see what your thoughts are, that is an indicator of your state.
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Hi. I have a specific desire to be married to my SP and live in s particular country with him. I can see it in my imagination. I have this desire for a long time but now I really want to put in the work to achieve it. Do you think it’s possible? How do I live in the end of this desire. If you could give me one example please. Thanks. Love and Regards – Jenna
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If you have a desire it is possible, but it doesn’t matter what I think is possible. You have to do the work to convince your subconscious mind it’s possible. You can do SAT’s, affirmation or whatever technique you prefer to do that, it’s more about practice than learning and building your belief system in the law.
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I can practice and then when will it manifest?
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The point of the practice is to convince your subconscious mind this is your new reality, that’s when it will manifest.
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Hi! I need an advice because I have a huge problem with this intrusive thought. So I’m very afraid if there is a 3p when it comes to my sp and he has said that right now he is working and focused on his career so he isnt looking for that right now but his fans keep saying that he is lying and we are delusional if we believe what he is saying because he is 28 even though at that age that’s totally normal to not be with anyone and keep your career first but I guess some people are close minded. How can I stop this worrying from happening? What do you think about this?
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Your thoughts turn into things, so if you worry about a 3P you’re potentially creating one. Ignore what other people say or what the 3D is showing you. Focus your thoughts and attention on the outcome you want.
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Hi. If I may ask how did you get this belief that creation is finished and what ever you desire is yours
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From reading and learning about manifesting from authors like Neville Goddard and Joseph Murphy.
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Could you recommend some where I can learn this ? I’m trying to build my belief that creation is finished includes my desired reality with SP.
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I recommend starting with Neville Goddard Feeling is the secret and The law and the promise. Joseph Murphy The power of the subconscious mind is also really good.
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Ok thanks for taking the time to reply. I’m just struggling with understanding how creation is finished means what state I can imagine with my sp already exists despite circumstances
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You’re struggling because you don’t believe. Read the material and apply it to your life and see what works for you. People think manifesting is a shortcut to get your SP back but it doesn’t work like that.
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Hey Sia, if it’s ok can you answer a few questions for me… it’s been about 6 weeks since my ex and I broke up. We were only together for 3 months long distance. I became very anxious and it pushed her away. I was controlling and not trusting. I know my limiting beliefs created that. So I always affirm that my past is my past and I’m creating new beliefs. She told me she needed to leave the relationship to work on loving herself so she can love externally. She knows that with self love she can attract a better love. She knows what it takes to manifest. She also told me that she was hurt that it took her leaving the relationship for me understand her, and that we had something special at 1st but then our bad stuff attracted eachother… but to me I did get her, it’s just my limiting beliefs got in the way. Should I be worrying about what she is manifesting? I wish there was a way to show her that I am working on myself and becoming more confident. She is very strong minded, she know she attracts and doesn’t chase. So I also worry if she will ever contact me again. I know with the both of us working on our self love, we can reunite and have a healthy relationship. Should I reach out to her when I’m stable enough? And does it matter if the relationship was short? Would that mean she will move on and get over me sooner, if she realizes well I’m not contacting her? Thank you Sia❤
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Everything you mentioned above are just circumstances, and circumstances don’t matter. I would suggest you first work on your self concept and knowing you are the creator of your own reality, no one is separate from you, they only reflect back to you what is alive within you. She will appear in your life how you assume she will appear in your life, but unless you work on your self concept and confidence, you won’t be able to come from a stable state.
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Sia thank you so much for all your blogs….But I seriously don’t understand what’s wrong…..my sp just asked me to be his friends with benefits…not only that….He said don’t get into any emotional attachments with me…….I’m so confused…any suggestions?
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Stop giving your SP so much importance in your life, he has not influence, your thoughts do. Be confident in your manifesting skills, know he is yours because you said so and he loves you deeply, you decide the outcome. If you don’t want a friends with benefits, tell him directly, thanks but no thanks I’m not interested, I know my worth and I deserve better and walk away but in your mind know he will come back begging to be in a relationship with you. Stop controlling the 3D and control the mind.
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It’s hard to come by knowledgeable people on this topic, however, you seem like you know what you’re talking about! Thanks
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