I don’t often share client success stories on here…. but this one is very special!

Almost a year since I have been with my dream man. I had promised myself I would write my story on this blog and hopefully inspire people like Sia and her story did for me, and continue to, to this day.

At the time I met my SP, I had somewhat started getting back into reading up on manifestation. In fact, before I met him, I tried things like feng shui to “attract the love of my life”… so I thought when I met him, it was based on those actions I had taken.

We met a few times and through our dates I felt a very strong connection. He had to go back to his home country, but somehow I felt I had met the one. He seemed perfect. We had been seeing each other for roughly 2.5 months and though he was communicative, I never really heard him talk about the future. If anything, he had started to share his fears around us as it was an inter-religious relationship. Throughout the time we were talking, all I wanted was for it to be a committed, official relationship. It had been so many years since I had had a boyfriend that I felt like if this had progressed to that, it would be the best thing that could have ever happened to me. Unfortunately, I could never really enjoy our time, I was just so focused on that “next step” and afraid it would not happen. One day, to get rid of all the anxiety I decided to end it, it was a very amicable end but all the while, hoping that he would turn around and come back in a few days – just like in so many stories I had read! That did not happen for me, and it would be an understatement to say I was not in a good place.

I had stumbled upon the reddit article that most of you may have found this site from. It gave me so much hope and I tried to follow some of the techniques listed, but also kept jumping from one technique to the other. Other times I’d watch videos all day long to feel better or still be researching looking for the “answer”. I could go on for hours and hours.

I finally decided to reach out to Sia via email and my life honestly changed. As she says in her contact page, coaching is not necessary but for me – I only wish I started sooner! The part that I was missing throughout was the self concept. I was just focused on getting him back. I thought as long as I kept doing the techniques, it would happen. The missing element was that I didn’t think I deserved it. I had put him so high on a pedestal, I couldn’t find any flaws in him even though he was actually a pretty grumpy, stressed man. Looking back I think he even had anger issues.

We worked on my self concept, and I just blindly followed what she said. In the start I couldn’t do the self concept without doing it for him. I kept wondering “when” it would happen. When she’d say I could meet someone a 1000 times better than my SP, I couldn’t even imagine it, let alone believe it. But one day like a bolt from the blue, the self concept piece suddenly hit me. For the first time I thought, maybe I should aim higher, and maybe it will happen. And before I knew it, I met my dream man. He has all the qualities I listed, and more. In fact, we too are an inter religious couple, but it never ever bothered him. I didn’t have to think about “when” we would be official, it happened so naturally, and really it was all him. There is a sense of calm and peace I have that I never had in the past. Yes it’s him, but it is mostly the new me and I know even if I attracted him in the past, I would never have been able to keep the relationship.  

I always say that she changed my life. Even though she says I put in the work, I just don’t believe it would have happened without her. Unlike other Youtubers and coaches, she was never forcing you to buy her coaching. If anything her website said it’s not even something you need. I speak for myself when I say, I needed someone to show me the way in some of those darkest times. But I am so glad that happened, because without it, I wouldn’t be where I am – not just in my love life but even in life!

Thank you so much Sia – as I always say, I am so happy I found you!!!!