So, my SP story started when I met a guy who ticked all the boxes on my list of a dream partner. When we first met the relationship was so easy, everything flowed naturally and easily fell into place. He was everything I had always wanted, and he really liked me. I had always been a very confident person when it came to relationships and had this belief, I can have any guy I want. However, because I felt this particular guy was so perfect, I literally put him on a pedestal, seeing him as some sort of god. For the first time in my life, I started to feel anxiety like no other, my mind was running wild. If he wouldn’t reply to my messages instantly or call me back or would cancel dates. I would automatically think the worse. He’s not interested, is there someone else. I kept repeating this story for months and then eventually that is what happened. We had a massive fight and stop speaking. I was devastated and desperate to get him back, but everything I did just pushed him further away. That was when I decided I need to take control and enough was enough. I had created this situation with my continuous negative thoughts and only I could fix it.
For reference by this point, we had not spoken or been in contact for 6 months and he had literally told me to never contact him again. So, this is what I did:
I decided to take every negative thought about him, our relationship, and the argument we had, and bin it. From this point onwards I would never repeat the old story again, like it had never happened. Revise it if you have too. That’s what I did, I revised the evening we had the argument, into a lovely romantic date and things were left in a good way, with my SP telling me he loved me and will see me soon.
I also took my SP off the pedestal, he’s just a normal person, this is my life, I am the GOD of my reality. So, in my head I decided on a new story in which I was the most important person, and my SP was head over heels in love with me.
I wrote down a list of affirmations about me, how I was confident, attractive, I can get any man I want, and I deserve this amazing relationship. About him, how I wanted to recreate him in my reality, loving, caring, attentive and only attracted to me. Then about the relationship, we are so in love and in a happy committed relationship. I kept the affirmations short and easy to remember, so I could repeat them whenever I needed too.
A strict mental diet is what worked for me, I hardly ever visualised, but when I repeated my affirmations, images of us walking down the street hand in hand would pop into my mind naturally, but if they didn’t that was ok, I didn’t force anything. Every time a negative thought came to my mind, I said NO and repeated my affirmations, until I felt a shift into a positive place. I did this continuously until the negative thoughts were completely gone. It didn’t take long. Another thing, I added to my routine was, I would repeat my affirmations to myself every night until I fell asleep.
During this time, I must stress you have to ignore your current reality and what’s happening in the 3D world. Completely live like you’re in this amazing relationship with your SP. The affirmations will make it easier to stay in that place. Don’t react to anything that is opposing your desire, and don’t wait around for calls or messages. I would just look at my phone and say why is he always calling and messaging me. Enjoy life and do things that you’d do if you already had this person in your life. Would you be googling how to get my ex back etc if you had them NO, so stop doing that. You know how to manifest, so go ahead and practice it. You can’t learn forever and there are no short cuts to this, you have to put in the work and test the law for yourself. Even Neville Goddard stressed the importance of testing the law and see it work for yourself.
The final and most important thing is PERSIST in the new story, do not give up. Don’t look for signs or feel like you have to contact them. Keep affirming until this new story feels more real than the old. Before you know it, the 3D world will catch up with your imagination. When you least expect it, your SP will be back with you. They have no choice but to conform to your assumptions of them, because everyone is you pushed out. If you believe they love you, miss you and only want you, they have to appear that way in your reality. Remember there is no one to change but self – Neville Goddard. You can’t change your SP in the 3D world without changing them in your thoughts and imagination first, change the old story you’re telling yourself about them. All you must do is dedicate the time and effort to control your mind.
This may sound harsh, but you have to be brutally honest with yourself. Some people say they are on a strict mental diet but are only positive when they’re affirming and then allow their mind to run wild rest of the time. When you’re on a strict mental diet, you should take control of every thought 24/7. It will get easier the more you do it.
As for my SP he contacted me 3 weeks into my mental diet, apologising and telling me how he’d missed me and wanted to see me. We’re now in a loving committed relationship, he is the best partner ever because I have created him that way. Everything I had been affirming to myself came true. Even now when he does things that annoy me, I don’t argue with him, I just change it in my mind. Once you adjust your mindset, your whole world will change.
The way I look at it is, it’s your life you write the script. Your SP is only an extra in your film, you’re the lead, so you call the shots. You can have this too, just believe in yourself and your relationship and take control of your mind. Best of luck everyone.
Imagination is Life 
Hi Sia, Greetings!
Recently, I’ve been visualizing my wedding ceremony as I want to manifest marriage. Unexpectedly, a lady entered my life proposing a marriage for her son through an arranged setup.
I decided to give it a chance, and this guy turned out to be the ideal version I had been envisioning for my SP. In fact, he conformed a few of my SP affirmations, and his gestures toward me align with what I had been thinking. He’s planning to fly down to my city, despite being in another part of the world. This is also what I have been affirming for my SP.
I am extremely happy; it seems my SP will soon manifest in the reality. I was a bit worried seeing this person showing strong interest in me, but we’ve maintained the clarity that it’s an arranged kind of setup. My affirmations are manifesting as I feel loved, cherished, secure, and content around everyone.
While I feel relaxed, during affirmations, I perceive my SP as quite neutral now. As a result, my affirmations sometimes come across as robotic. I am in a state where I feel i deserve so much.
Your thoughts on this would be appreciated? Thanks! 😊
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Hi Diya, if you feel neutral now that’s a good sign. It’s shows you are no longer desperate for your desire and it is starting to feel normal to you. Keep persisting 😊
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Hey I have a three questions for you.
1.How much time did it take for you to reach at a point where you knew your desire is yours?
2.How many affirmations you have had which you had affirm throughout your day in those 21 days? And what was the proportion of affirmations of SC and SP related affirmations?
3.While not doing anything I find it so difficult to keep my mind calm and focused in new story. Any suggestions on this?
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Hi, the fact you are asking these questions, shows you are not getting the process.
1. The time it takes doesn’t matter. It is not time but getting to the point of conviction. Can take some people 1 hour and others 1 year or never.
2. It is not the amount of affirmations but the quality of the affirmations. Affirmations are just thoughts. 70% should be SC as the problem is you not the SP.
3. Work on building your SC this will overall help with the negative thoughts. Identity why you lack confidence and work on it.
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Hey what do you think is missing in my understanding of the process? Just for tHe context the reason I asked about number of affirmations is the mind learns through repetition and what should be the ideal number of affirmations in that case? And identifying reason for lack of confidence in the process or confidence in myself that i can get my sp back!
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The number doesn’t matter, it about the quality of the thoughts not quantity. Confidence in the process and yourself, you have to ask what is lacking for you not to have your desire.
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Hi there,
So I met my sp 2 years ago. At that time I manifested a 3rd party. Since then, I’ve done a lot of inner work and I mean a lot. I feel totally different even from a month ago. However, I just found out that my sp and the 3rd party broke up because he cheated on her with a woman at the new school he worked at last year. I don’t know how to feel about this. Did I manifest a second 3rd party as I was working on myself,? I don’t like how this felt like a solid connection and this has been playing out in the background instead. I’ve already worked on self-concept and my beliefs on relationships so to me, this is surprising. I don’t know when it happened though as I do not know the details and as I have mentioned I’m totally different now than I was even a month ago but still, there is something here that I am unsure if I need to clear on my end. Any thoughts?
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Hi Maria, focus on yourself and your desires, not the 3D.
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Thank you ❤
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Hi Sia,
I have question for you: two months ago I manifested my sp back, but then he broke up with me and the other day he told me that there is a third party. Yesterday we argued, since he told me that even if we dated again two months ago, he didn’t feel anything anymore for me. Yesterday I sent him a last replying text and then I told myself ”never reach out again. Work on your self concept and mental diet and the 3D will change. Don’t manipulate the 3D anymore. He’ll understand everything for what you told him in your last text”. The problem is that today I told myself ”I have to text him again saying to reflect about his actions, so he’ll think about them and maybe he’ll understand that he did all of this things because he likes me”. I don’t know what to do, because I have both the assumption to not reach out or I’ll mess things up, but at the same time the assumption that I’ll mess things up if I won’t text him saying to reflect on his actions, he’ll never think about that and he won’t come back to me. So I’ll feel gulity if I won’t, because it’ll be because I didn’t text him. I feel I’ll mess things up both if I do something or not, and I’m afraid that even if I affirm for the end result, without doing anything in the 3D, it won’t manifest because I didn’t do anything. I feel like I’ll mess things up anyway. Any thoughts?
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You don’t have to do anything in the 3D to obtain your desire, that is just a limiting belief.
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Hi. Thanks for sharing your experience. I developed a crush on my SP. We follow each other on IG. We’ve never been in contact so far. I did many manifestations and I got tired. So now I’m just listening to subliminal music and I write the wanted script of the reality I want to happen soon. I clearly know what I want from my SP and I somehow know deep down that we are meant to be together. That feeling has developed suddenly. I do a lot of visualization as well because I feel better that way. I value myself and I know I’m the one. My 3D reality hasn’t changed so far. What else can I do?
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The 3D won’t change if you are still questioning it. It will change when you live in the end of having it. If you were truly living in the end, you wouldn’t be questioning it now.
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“Somehow I know that we are meant to be together”
Classic LIMERENCE. I someone who has fallen down the SP rabbit hole (including soulmates, Twin Flame and believing at one point that we had past lives together) wouldn’t it be obvious that if you were “meant” to be together, that you would be together? I can tell you manifesting my SP caused me YEARS of the worst pain imaginable–ALL my energy went into her. Neville used to say “imagine a ring on your finger and a suitable partner will show up” Alot of times people with c-ptsd and attachment wounds will attribute magical
thinking to the way someone makes us feel. And I get it–the limerence is like a drug, it is an escape, but if God or Source or a Higher Power wanted you to be together, you wouldn’t have to fight tooth an nail for them to be with you.
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It all comes down to your belief system as to whether you deserve something or not. Manifesting is the difference between believing & deserving something versus being delusional & desperate for something. Limerence is an obsession with someone whereas manifesting their love is knowing you are worthy of that person.
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The line between manifesting an SP and being delusional and desperate is basically paper thin. Virtually EVERYONE who finds manifesting (whether Neville/Joseph Murphy or Law Of Attraction) an SP attractive, has some sort of attachment wound and/or c-PTSD that leave them open to not distinguish between “manifesting an SP” and Limerance. And if manifesting an SP is such a smart move and sure fire thing, out of 1000 people manifesting a specific person, how many got together after 1 year of manifesting that SP? How about after 2 years? How about 5 years? Limerence is HORRIBLE and insidious, and to the average person who even WANTS a person who has shown that THEY DON’T WANT YOU, that person MOST LIKELY has DEEP attachment wounds! A HEALTHY person only WANTS a person who is available and wants then back. If you have to “manifest” your SP, the fact is THEY DON’T WANT YOU. These are actual facts. The SP commmunity/Twin Flame community are HORRIBLY damaging to the VERY SAME PEOPLE who would even be attracted to it! And anyone who has magical thinking such as “I just KNEW we were meant to be together” or “as soon as I looked into her eyes”, that isn’t a Twin Flame, or even love. That is the dopamine and oxytocin hit of classic limerance.
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There is no reference to soul mates or twin flames in any of my posts. What about people who have the same repetitive patterns in every relationship due to their insecurities and negative thoughts??? Even when they find a person who wants them, they push them away due to their negative programming, manifesting is for those people to change their negative programming to get the life they desire. If it didn’t work so many people wouldn’t get their SP’s back and be in happy loving relationships but the problem is some people fail at it because they don’t have the mental willpower to go through the process to change their mindset and they always want someone to blame or express their limiting beliefs too. We are all different with different beliefs systems and abilities. These posts are for people with a positive outlook, who want to make a change.
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Hi Sia,
I always come back to read this when I want to feel inspired. I’ve been working on my SP journey for 3 months now and have gotten no movement this far. I had a question when it comes to this. My ex from years ago broke up with me, I had accepted it was over, we would never get back together, and i never did any techniques to get him back (I hadn’t discovered NG then) but about 3 months later he came back to me. Now with my SP (current ex) I’ve been affirming & working towards having our relationship back for 3 months with no movement in the 3d. How is it with my first ex, when i told myself it was done for good & never affirmed for him, he came back, but with my SP, I tell myself we’re in a relationship and affirm for him, and there’s nothing? Would love your insight on this!
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Hi, it is not the affirmations that manifest but your state of mind. Sometimes, when you over focus on something i.e. affirming out of desperation to have something, you are actually creating more resistance. Instead of questioning the manifestation with your ex, you probably let go of the desperation of wanting and needing him. That is the difference.
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Hey sia,
I met my SP a year ago, we had a nice relationship but now looking at it there couldve been some stuff done a little differently. He broke up with me because he lost feeling it was so out of no where and you could tell he really didnt mean it. One month after the breakup i decided to talk to him again and tell him that i wanna get back together i was obssesing over him and seemed a little desperate which i think its why he didnt take me back instantly, that same day he told me that he has been thinking about maybe getting back together with me but he said it wasnt going to workout that exact day i was tired so i took him of that pedastel i had him in started focusing on my self and on self love and i would tell myself affirmations that he will come back. Its noe been 3 months, i still miss him and now i know why i miss him, why i still have feelings for him, and what my intentions are with him. Ive recently done a lot of visualizing, using affirmations, setting my intentions, and im using the law of assumption to manifest him back. Ive never manifested someone before so i dont really know where to start any advice you can give me? or any methods i should try?.
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Hi, it’s not the technique that manifests but the belief once it becoming an assumption. In order to build a belief system repetition is key.
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I was wonderung if ur lilbunny who has a post about how you manifested your sp back and the Loa is real 101%?
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No that is not me 🙂
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Hey Sia, do you think just self concept is suffice to manifest your desire?
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Yes absolutely, it is the key to your manifestation.
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Self concept of you being good or you being deserving of your desires?
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Self concept basically refers to your self belief and confidence in yourself, knowing what you deserve and your ability to manifest.
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I have been trying to fix myself first before manifesting sp but i am having a nightmare for last 2 3 days Any opinion here
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Nightmares sometimes can be your minds way of dealing with the old negative thinking and pushing out the old thoughts to allow room for the new.
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Hi, so even if we acted desperate or not in a good way (I argued with him and I looked really desperate, immature and told him he made many mistakes. To summarise we left on bad terms) and now I believe he thinks that I’m insecure, immature, desperate. Can I still get him back, if I start saying good affirmations and have a good mental diet?
When thoughts like ”law of assumption doesn’t exist”, ”what happened was just based on your beahaviour not on your thoughts”, ”you’re wasting your time and you’ll not succeed because you can’t change someone with just your thoughts” pop up, what do you suggest to do? I usually watch success stories or I think of my successes, but my rational mind always tells me that manifestation doesn’t exist, that I’m gonna delude myself.
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If your thoughts are law of assumption doesn’t exist then it will be more difficult. As it’s based on your belief system. I would suggesting working on self concept prior to manifesting an SP.
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Hi, is it best if my SP and I are not currently in contact? We haven’t spoken in months, but I feel pretty comfortable about this. Thank you for your insight!
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It is up to you… it doesn’t matter if you’re in contact or not what’s more important is how you mentally let the situation impact you.
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Hello Sia,
This was a very inspiring and great post. Thank you for sharing! I have a couple of things I’ve been struggling with.
So I broke up with my SP about a month ago because he cheated on me. But I do really want him back. We have been together for 10 years and I don’t want to lose this connection with him. We still talk every day but I know he still sees the third party. He has said he doesn’t want to date her and that it’s really nothing serious but I am actually haunted by what he’s done.
I have known about the law for a long time so I didn’t find it out of desperation. But I am afraid to admit that I might be struggling with it a bit. I have been working on my self concept and revising the past. But I am really struggling with revising the night I found out he was cheating. The old story keeps playing back and I can’t get it to change.
I have been trying to ignore the 3D but I keep thinking about the third party. And I will attack it with affirmations but I think I may have missed something in my self concept work. I am not sure.
I have been actively manifesting my SP for the last 3 weeks and I do notice some things but yesterday he asked me to dinner and he told me that he is still unsure on if he wants to make things work and that he still sees 3rd party. He told me that I am always on his mind and that he really misses me (things I’ve been affirming) but I don’t know why there’s still a third party. I mean I know it’s probably because I am struggling to ignore the 3D but I really need advice on forgetting about it.
Also when visualizing I visualize multiple scenarios. Like the conversation of us getting back together, us moving in together, us cuddling, and us going on a trip. Is that okay?? Or should I focus on one visualization. I also listen to manifestation subliminals on YouTube every night and I am not sure if those help or not.
I have never manifested love I usually manifest things like a new job, good health, or I’ll manifest good for others. So I am not sure if there’s rules to this type of visualization.
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The mind learns with repetition therefore I would focus on one visual and keep repeating it.
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Hey Sia!
i found your blog few weeks back and read each post multiple times. Even tho everytime I feel low or something. I reread your blog. Im working on my Sc way too much. Im doing Sc + Sp affirmation but here is something I want to ask:
-I miss him, by doing it Am I putting him on pedestal?
-How to overcome the Nc situation
TIA ♥️
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Hi, you can miss him but not from a point of desperation and the main thing to focus on is your SC and putting yourself on the pedestal before focusing on the NC.
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Hi Sia. I was seeing a guy and he ended it with me because he said it wasn’t passionate enough when we were intimate and I got quite nervous and tense. He seems to have made up his mind and he said that’s the most important part of a relationship. he didn’t want to travel down to see me also and I had to come down to his area? Can I still manifest everything working out as how I would want them to be and him to be a nicer version?
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Yes, you can manifest a better relationship if that is what you think you deserve and ask yourself why you were putting up with this lack of effort from a man in the first place.
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Hi, how to manifest someone who deleted our number? I read that manifestations come in the most natural way for us: if I think that the most natural way is by a text message, how can I manifest someone who can’t contact me?
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People who delete your number can still contact you but it all comes down to your belief system.
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hes engaged to be married in 6 months we have a 4 year old together, im just so deflated ive been trying to get him back for 4 years now
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Focus on your self concept and building your confidence that will make it easier for you to manifest a relationship.
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If it’s about getting a text from sp after being rejected, then when I should check the 3D, (I mean social media to confirm if it worked or not). Cause I already have massages in my insta inbox, but didn’t check if It’s my sp or someone else. When should I check em?
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You don’t check because that is the old 3D you live in the end and it will happen. If you keep looking at the 3D that means you don’t fully trust the process.
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Hey, Sia!
I feel like my situation is quite bad but I have manifested him once, so I know I can do it again. We broke up in November after a relationship of 3 months, he ended up blocking me but we reconnected in March, things started turning downhill overnight, I actually didn’t get to sleep that night because I had all of this negative scenarios inside my head. I chased him, even slept with him in an attempt to keep him near me but it all just backfired. He said we are not working and that there is no chemistry, also that he saw the same person in me as I was last November. I miss him a lot, I want us to try the right way, I want him to be gentle and caring and prioritize me, not only his work. We have been in no contact for 40 days.
Any advice?
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Instead of focusing on the 3D circumstances, focus on what you actually want a happy healthy relationship
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Hi Sia,
I was in a fairly long-term relationship. Everything was going well until one day, crazy arguments broke out among us. Fights over not providing enough time or not going on appropriate dates because of hectic schedules harmed our relationship. My partner then stated last year that he had lost affection for me and no longer wanted to share a life with me. He can no longer maintain this connection because the initial spark or desire has been lost. For the first several days, I really forced things. I even went so far as to beg because I was so afraid of losing him. This is when he began giving me frigid looks.
I became terrified and began to keep my distance from him out of fear of losing him entirely. At this point, I began to practically robotically affirm things like “he loves me” and “obsessed with me,” and I began practicing on the SATs on a regular basis. We met a few days ago at a place where I did see that he was smitten with me at first, giving me adorable looks, but he completely disregarded me when I tried to talk to him about how much the distance was draining on me. We have little interaction because he worries about losing me too, but he wants to be friends with me, which I don’t want to do.
Being a beginner to the law, I nearly sometimes believe and sometimes do not believe my affirmations but I persist any way. But in this entire journey, or whatever I have explained so far i cannot understand what self concept work should i do before jumping to manifest my SP which is actually my end goal. It was my dream relationship and my SP had ticked almost all boxes of my liking. Secondly, since i belong to a rather strict household, after all these my parents went against him. So should i manifest my parent’s mindset? if so, how can i do it? Thirdly, the 3d keeps on triggering me. Statements he is not good for you and stuffs you should move on goes against my manifestation. is my situation at all recoverable? I would be glad if you help me.
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That is why the mental diet is so important. You have to be able to control these thoughts whether they are yours, his or your parents and be able to think positivity about the situation. Your belief in the outcome has to be stronger than the circumstances.
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Hi. It was nice to read your post. I was wondering if it’s better to stick to the same affirmations or it can be different sometimes? Like, if I stick to for example “Sp is in love with me, sp is thinking about me all the time” or it can be this and sometimes something else as well, like, sp confessed his love for me, sp treats me with love and respect” etc…
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Your mind learns with repetition, so best to stick to the same affirmation.
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hi sia! Love you so much. Did you embody being in the relationship all the time like an actress. Or was it more a knowing it’s done. Full faith it will happen. But you were aware you weren’t actually in the relationship.
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Hi, I didn’t act or play as if. It was a feeling of confidence knowing he would come back and we would be together in a happy relationship.
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Thank you for sharing your stories. I worked on manifesting SP and my SC for just one year. So many positive things happened. 3D changed from an ex (3rd party) came back to I got totally welcomed and accepted by his family and friends. And he changed from a person who seek for only leisure relationship to someone who honors commitment. Now he shares with me almost everything.
All these happened ever since the day I accidentally came over a video about robotic affirming by Sammy in the Youtube when I did tarot card reading. And because I started to learn that you could change any fortune telling once you believe in yourself and persist on what you want.
About those who have the doubt like how about more than one person manifesting the same SP, well, first of all, not everyone have that firm believe. Only those who have the faith can manifest. and secondly, you are the God of your reality. Each one just goes to each own parallel universe. The most important of all, enjoy your life. SP is not the key. A better you deserve the things you want is key.
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Hi Sia,
Ever since, I have read your story, I am kind of follower because I have exactly same story, a person full of confidence or good behaviour having all the following but loved just one person and kind of fell into negativity of my own thoughts and then I have all my fear becoming real., I use to have this negative of pattern of fear what is he leaves me, what if he is not attracted to me, what if he goes to someone else, and currently after our huge fight.
He says, he is seeing someone else, we work in same office and I see him cold everyday. Initially I took a complete off from everything for about a month to fix myself mentally, then with my own I have learned about my own mistakes in the process.
I really do not have self concept issue, but I do effected at times by things happening around and having him infornt of me sometimes is challenging because no matter what state of mind I keep, I break down.
He is person too bold and stubborn from outside but not inside, I am a person too soft and emotional from outside but I don’t quit easily, now it’s almost 6 months, at times I have tried talking to him but everything pushed things farther, and with the latest adverse in my 3D I realised it is kind of all my past fear being pushed out.
Now today, when am I crying a lot, I know it is not about myself, I know I can get anyone, I can do all just to move on, life wise I don’t have any complains and somedays have been beautiful days of my journey and every time I have realised that, I just love him so purely and I do miss him a lot and I really don’t grudges of past left in me, but I just have this fear that since he said that no matter what he is not coming back to me – so, what if that is the truth, suddenly this fear has popped up in my head and I can’t stop crying.
I just want to know how to stick with the mental diet, because I am unable to fix my affirmations, as per my situation what exactly should be my affirmations. I don’t look for confirmation or signs in 3D but I am unable to keep the same thought, my mind keeps wandering all the time.
I would love to connect to your personally, if there is any way, because your story has been my guidance ever since.
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Hi, Sia, I recently came across this blog post and found it inspirational. Thank you for sharing your story and process.
One of my main affirmations for my sp is “Isn’t it wonderful SP is my boyfriend? Isn’t it wonderful SP and I are living together?”, inspired by Neville Goddard’s “Isn’t it wonderful” affirmation. You don’t think I’m inadvertently putting them them on the pedestal by affirming that, do you? I do also affirm for self concept. I would appreciate your input.
Thank you again for inspiring readers with your story and process.
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Hi, these affirmations are fine you only put something on a pedestal if you think it is out of reach.
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Hi Sia,
3 years ago I met a man who was too obsessed with me and used to love me a lot . He ticked all the boxes of man I had ever wanted. But 2 months ago he said that he didn’t want to be with me and since then we have not talk to each other in any ways. I was completely devastated. I am trying from 2 months to manifest a contact. But there is certain fear that what if it does not happen and also I am trying hard to believe in my manifestation and keep faith but the negative thoughts pop up. What should I do? I found your story somewhat similar to mine. Please suggest me something.
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Hi Eva, I have highlighted in my posts the steps you should follow, the most important is mental diet.
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Thank you for your post. Im having similar situation but worse…I was insecure and have BPD so I spiraled many times and my sp came back a few times but not the way i wanted him to be (hot and cold,ghost, ignore) and I put him on pedestal. Ive been manifesting happy life with him and things had been seemed ok but I couldnt ignore undesired/very complicated 3d situations recently and I feel my negative thought unfolded and He said he is not sure if we should continue the relationship, and I told that I dont want to end. but seems like he might and might just ghost…
AM i able to manifest him to come back and be better version of him? Thank you.
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Hi Sia,
I came across your post purely by accident but it resonated with me so much, I did the exact same thing you did, put him on a pedestal, he was perfect etc and then started to think he was seeing others, I wasn’t good enough, who was he texting etc and our 9 year relationship ended pretty badly 5 weeks ago. He’s blocked me, won’t talk to me and says he hates me. I’ve been manifesting for around 2 weeks and I am more at peace with things now..I need to work on my SC and what I truly deserve. A partnership should be equal. I’ve been having some nightmares the last few nights, is this my self conscious mind at work? I am living in the end, we are together, we are in love but these nightmares have worried me..thank you xx
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hi Sia ,
I had breakup in August 2024 , bcoz my parents didn’t want me to marry my bf and I also understood myself and I started being happy in my life. But in oct a marriage proposal came for me and my family was ready for my marriage. My pic was shown to boy’s family and they were ready for the marriage. Even they were ready for the engagement as soon as possible. on 15 nov they came to saw me and finalized our marriage and gave me shagun. Next day they said that the boy is manglik and this marriage cannot happen. Till Feb I used to think that manglik dosh is not such a big issue one day everything will be fine bcoz I want to marry him as he has all qualities I had dreamed of in a partner. My mother tried to contact his mother but don’t pic up the call and answer the call then I messaged him on IG hii and he blocked me without accepting the request and replying message. Then we came to know that they were not interested for the marriage and manglik dosh is just a excuse. And his mother refused to marriage. I don’t know what the reason behind their refusal . I was depressed and cried all the time. I thought that how unlucky I am that my first love was remain incomplete bcoz of my parents and the second one I started like he also going out of my life . I don’t know whether it was an attraction bcoz he is so handsome and my dreamed partner. I tried to forget him but I. Can’t. Always I searched everywhere how can I get him back and thinking about him every second of day . Plase tell me what can I do how I manifest him in my life 🙏.
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Hi! What you wrote is pretty much what I am now living. Your words inspired me and brought some comfort to my heart. I have the same mentality as you “if I manifested it, I might as well fix it”, but it’s been a few days since we last talked, I am spiraling a lot, wavering… my family is eager to remind me of the old story. And then I cry, spiral, waver. Before the conversation that got us into this place, I had success stories about him, though I felt him a bit off (I gave into negative thoughts). Anyway, I am not letting the beautiful story I manifested go this way (I did manifest him), I am decided not to. I am not giving it to anyone. Not even to my bad thoughts anymore. I just don’t know if I should affirm for the near future, or to revise the old circumstances. Revising is something that I haven’t had success with yet. Thank you!
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